Sunday, February 3, 2008

Search for the Hour Long Orgasm - Part 1

The Search for the Hour Long Orgasm - an Introduction

It has always been my belief that to be anything but an ordinary lover, one must go out of their way to find the unltimate way to please their partner in every aspect of romance. This means research, experimentation, practice, study, and, most of all, creativity.

My devotion to this principle (and frankly my own intellectual curiousity) has led me to use all of the resources I have in learning how to become a better lover. Now, I'm not talking about buying penis enhancement products or toys to enhance my natural lovemaking abilities. I'm talking about pure knowledge. Enhancement products are a load of bunk as far as I'm concerned and toys can make great additions to the bedroom, but will never be a substitute for sexual prowess.

During my research, I have discovered the prospect of the hour long orgasm. Most sources that talk about this fascinating feat offer to sell you the secret and seem to be obvious scams. However, there have been references on other advice sites to a half-hour "rolling" orgasm where the woman has constant orgasms that seem to blend into one long one. If it is possible to achieve a rolling orgasm that lasts for a half-hour, why not an hour?

The idea of being able to give my girlfriend an hour long orgasm intrigued me to the point of near obsession. Since then, I have done research and experimentation and combined the results with my previous knowledge to give longer and better orgasms. I am nowhere near the one hour mark, but as I learn more, I creep closer. I plan to keep a log of what I learn in this journey so that others may be able to learn from this experience.

Part 1 - Clock Positions

The first thing anyone will need to know when trying to give longer and better orgasms is a bit of anatomy. Most people have a basic understanding of parts and how things work, so I'm going to skip the basic introduction to the vagina and cover a few more interesting and useful aspects that I have learned. Now, I am no expert. After all I'm a rhetoric major, not pre-med or biology. If what you know is contradictory to what I say here, let me know.

The clitoris, as most people know, is the female center of orgasm. However, what most people don't seem to realize is that we are only able to see a tiny portion of the clitoris, the clitoris glans. When a person develops, there is a point where the male and female body are exactly the same. What this means is that the male and female body are incredibly similar. The clitoris is what eventually develops into the penis of the male. The part of the clitoris that we are able to see is equivalent to the head (or glans) of the penis.

This is useful knowledge for many males (including myself) who find the female body hard to please. This gives us a point of reference on our own bodies that we can understand. As any guy will tell you, the head of the penis is the absolutely most sensitive part of the penis. When it comes to making a man orgasm, it is the most important part of the penis to stimulate. The same goes for the clitoris glans for exactly the same reason.

The clitoris glans provides a uniques challenge of stimulation that isn't presented on the head of the penis. The head of the penis is completely exposed and gets stimulated during almost every interaction of the penis without too much thought. The clitoris glans does not have this advantage.

One technique for getting around this challenge is to rub or lick around the edges of the clitoris glans that is attached to the clittoral hood. I call this "going around the clock". Many sex instructors will talk about this and give you the "right" way to do it. One website that I was reading made a good point however. The direction that you move in a circle doesn't really matter that much from a biological point of view. It matters much more on a personal level. Some women like to be touched clockwise, some counter-clockwise. The important thing to know is that because of how the clitoris is rigged in the body, the woman is usually much more responsive to the upstroke than the downstroke.

The other thing that you may learn from sex instruction is the "magical" eleven o'clock position. While stimulating the area around the clitoris glans, you will reach a point where the woman begins to orgasm. At this point, depending on if you are going around the clock in a clockwise or counter-clockwise fashion, if you apply pressure to the eleven o'clock or one o'clock position respectively, the orgasm tends to continue on as long as you keep that pressure applied. I don't know why this is, but I have noticed its effectiveness as it has enabled me to keep and orgasm going for about 5-6 minutes.

Every woman is different. I cannot stress this enough. What works for one woman may not work for a different woman and may not even work consistantly for the same woman. Experiment, try new things, but always listen. If you truly want to please your partner, listen to them and what they crave. Encourage them to tell you and reward them with the pleasure that they desire. You will be rewarded by them craving you.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have kinda alot of sex with my girlfriend and i find that she is kinda shy about some sexual thing (sorry about any spelling by the way) but the main things she says that helps her have a longer orgasem is if u talk to her while sex she says it helps her think of me and she doesnt mean dirty talk she means just saying i love her and while have sex hold her tite and rub here cliters while have sex rubbing it in a upward mostion i hope this helps anyone els.

Anonymous said...

All the anatomy in the world isn't going to make a DAMN bit of difference if you don't understand the all-important universal truth that EVERY GIRL IS DIFFERENT. I've been with a girl that hated her clit being touched, a girl that only liked having her clit touched, and a few in between. So it means jack shit if you know her technical anatomy, because what you're going to try so hard to do might just be a total bust.

Moreover, none of this matters if you can't turn your girlfriend (or that random chick from the bar) on, because, as you should know, the brain is the largest and most important erogenous zone.

Now, this is something every guy that's ever been laid by more than one girl knows, so explaining it would be moot, except I'm pretty sure most of your readers probably learn about sex on wikipedia. I just felt like spelling it out because it seems that the entirety of this blog is dedicated to stating the painfully obvious.

Anonymous said...

I have observed several girls from just had her 1st mensuration as a teenager to the one given birth to children that the most they like is licking the clits with the tip of tounge as lightly and as speedy as possible. in few seconts she jumps up througing her vegina up so hard it hits your teeth n suddendly she collopses. Quite few drops of fluid also comes out. With that she hugs u so hard and thnk you for having taken to heaven. And she obeys u and takes your shaft in her mouth till u discharge in her mouth completely. She tells she feel so intimate with you now than before. It is worth try this

Anonymous said...

Okay, im a girl. bisexual so please understand, ive had my hand on a few more then just my own clit so i know all women are different, but my boyfriend, whom i love, acts like he only wants to please me. regardless of lying or not, being the center of 'his" attention is far more a turn on that the touch itself. having a extremely long orgasm interested me (after watching house) but as i see, it probably takes time and i could have orgasmed several times in that one-hour long time. could you imagine the time and wait you men would have to go through? i like the several second long clasp of 'us'. its far more romantic to orgasm together, and nothing one-sided. this is my opinion. so i guess my morel of this story is, know what she wants, dont do it because you want to.....well for the wrong reason please! You will get your just reward ;)